Description:

You’re twins, so which one do I pick up?  

What You’ll Learn

Specifics on the difference between up talk and down talk
How to ask questions using down talk
Learning how down talk will force your psyche to be confident
Summary

00:08 – Why down talk is so damn important
00:26 – The worst thing a guy, with his speech, is uptalk
00:46 – Examples of down talk vs up talk
00:59 – Up Talk is very passive and makes you sound unsure about what is coming out of your mouth
01:11 – Down Talk is where you say something with more belief and conviction
01:15 – Most things should be said with down talk fashion
01:28 – You have to be more dominant and sure of yourself: equates to a girl being more attracted to you
01:31 – Down Talk conveys that you’re more sure of yourself
01:43 – Down Talk essentially tricked my own brain to be more dominant & confident
01:50 – If you do certain things, you trick your brain you feel that way, and in the end you actually become that feeling
02:15 – If you do certain things, you will become a new person just by doing these certain things.
02:33 – I actually felt confident when I down talked
02:41 – When you feel like shit, start purposely using down talk: you’ll be in a better mood
02:57 – Try to imagine if this interaction was down with Up Talking
03:13 – Make a very sure distinction when listening to this approach
03:24 – The Approach
06:50 – The Breakdown
07:11 – The question: “What do you like to do for fun?” seems to be programmed in our brain to be used with Up Talk
07:24 – If you Up Talk questions you’ll sound unsure, be more commanding.
07:32 – Listen to how I asked the question again.
07:37 – Compare it to someone who up talks instead
08:04 – Using Down Talk as my advantage: more likely to believe the things that come out of my mouth
08:28 – Sounding more mature and more assure of yourself
08:51 – Because I was very commanding the way I stopped her, she stopped
09:11 – Up Talking sounds as if you’re begging
09:51 – Girls can lie that they have a boyfriend
10:17 – If you ask in a down talk fashion, they’re more likely to believe you
10:36 – Down talking is like a cheat code
10:47 – Whenever you feel like shit or nervous, force yourself to down talk

Many guys think that simple and normal questions can’t be said with down talk. However, in this episode Jesse goes over how down talk can be used in every situation, conversation, and question. But, down talk is not only used in conversation to make you seem commanding, it also pushes your psyche to think more confidently and puts you in a better mood to excel at pick up. 

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